
Habit of Reading print. 12 3/4″ x 16 3/4 screenprint on pale blue, lightly textured paper. Paper made in France, printed in USA. Buy the print here.

Habit of Reading print. 12 3/4″ x 16 3/4 screenprint on pale blue, lightly textured paper. Paper made in France, printed in USA. Buy the print here.
Shantanu Bagchi on his defining moments and why planning is important.

Bored? Good for you.
We have a new ritual now, and it really has become my favorite part of the day. I put her to bed 15 minutes earlier than before. She crawls into bed and, instead of shushing her, I lie next to her and we just talk. She talks about things that happened that day, things she’s worried about, things she’s curious or thinking about. I listen and ask her questions. We laugh together. And our minds just wander.
This is a wonderful end to an interesting article: Why I Returned My iPad. Not at all a boring read and if you beg to differ, remember, even that might be a good thing. 🙂 Thank you, Peter Bregman, for having a different take on boredom. Via: Lester Fernandes
If every day is an awakening, you will never grow old. You will just keep growing.
—Gail Sheehy
Beautiful thoughts like these are sometimes found in the unlikeliest of places. In this case, at the end of an e-mail forward (about a Japanese beer 3D TV commercial).
While I was walking down the steps of Mahim station towards the platform, a Gujarati grandfather and his 3, maybe 4-year old granddaughter are walking up the stairs. Grandpa has her school bag and water bottle in one hand and the other one is holding her tiny hand. Here is the sweet conversation that followed.
Granddaughter: Bag aapo ne. (Give me the bag)
Grandpa: Nai. (No)
Granddaughter: Bag saaf che? (Is the bag clean?)
Grandpa: Haan. (Yes)
Granddaughter: To bag aapo ne mane. (Then give the bag to me.)
Grandpa: Nai. (No)
Granddaughter: Bag bhari che? (Is the bag heavy?)
Grandpa: Haan. (Yes)
Granddaughter: Reva dyo. (Then let it be.)
And she silently walked up with her grandpa and I walked down, shaking my head, with a big smile on my face.

An interesting article by Vinita Dawra Nangia with an even more interesting question. This is the part that got our attention.
[…] a word attraversiamo, which she is told means ‘Let’s cross over.’ However, it takes her an entire year and a journey through three countries to decide that this is the word she wishes to define her life by. The word denotes coming to terms with something, holding the hand of a loved one and helping each other cross over, coming to a decision about life and about yourself and deciding what or who your heart really beats for. Quite often most of us are dithering on the edge of a discovery or decision, hesitating to take the step that takes us over to the other side, waiting for a sign, a prophecy. And then comes the epiphany, and we cross over. A beautiful word. Attraversiamo.

Partnership mein 90% trust to hona hi chahiye. 10% dhoka chalega.
—Owner, Guru Da Dhaba
In a partnership, you need 90% trust. Then, we can make do with 10% of cheating. This wise and practical thought on business partnership came from a soft-spoken Punjabi man who runs a small hotel called ‘Guru Da Dhaba’ in Lokhandwala, Andheri (W), Mumbai. While we were waiting for getting the money back after paying the bill, we shared how we really liked the lip-smacking, tastes-like-home-cooked-food Punjabi fare and asked him why he didn’t he open branches in other parts of the city. The man replied that he and his wife manage this place; children work at big companies and don’t want to sit and run a hotel; and he can start branches if only he could find someone trustworthy to run a place like this. During this piece of conversation, he dropped this gem of a thought. I later realised I never asked his name. There’s always a next time, I guess. Thank you, Sardarji owner of Guru Da Dhaba for the food and sharing your wisdom.

Failures are often not the result of limitations but the result of our own will. ‘Making do’ is making great design happen, whatever the circumstance.
What an end to a very interesting article on how to look at the creative business. This last line makes us wonder whether we can apply the same message to life as well.
Read the whole article here.