Why to argue with someone. Just say, ‘Yes! You are absolutely right!’ Then go ahead and do what you want to do. Just saves so much energy. —Farhan Akhtar

Arguments – we’ve all been there, right? They can be exhausting and often leave us feeling drained. But what if there was a way to handle them without getting caught up in the back-and-forth?

Farhan Akhtar shared a gem of wisdom on this in one of his conversations in the first season of the talk show Koffee with Karan.

When we engage in arguments, it’s like entering a never-ending cycle. It’s like two people pulling on opposite ends of a rope, and neither wants to let go. But what if we shifted our perspective? Instead of seeing arguments as battles to be won, we can consider them as opportunities to understand different viewpoints. Farhan’s advice gives us a way out – a way to avoid the energy drain that arguments often bring.

Saying, “Yes! You are absolutely right!” need not mean that we lost or someone else’s ideas or opinions are right or better. It’s about choosing where to invest our energy. Some battles aren’t worth fighting, and acknowledging someone else’s perspective doesn’t weaken our position. In fact, it empowers us to focus on what truly matters. And we totally agree 🙂

So, next time a disagreement comes our way, let’s remember Farhan’s wise words. We can agree, let go of the tug-of-war, and gracefully go our own way. By choosing our battles wisely, we conserve our energy for endeavours that ignite our passions. It’s a simple shift that can lead to a more peaceful and empowered approach to navigating the complexities of life’s discussions.